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Date: Monday, November 26, 2007
home sweet home!?
lets talk about home
seriously
i envy those who had a bonded and wonderful family
how do you define that?
bonded in the sense that they will go out as a family/ with relative
wonderful in the way that they can talk about everything under the sun
compromising each others
supporting without fail
sometimes, tides will form and lightning will strike
with ending like most fairy tales
*happy ending*
human nature - compare with one another, be it small matters or big matters
some people will blame their parents
some will blame themselves
so who is right
and who is wrong
from my point of view, there is no right and wrong
depends which shoes are you on
they care for you, thats why they come out with this conclusion
you did this because you are not satisfied with your parent's way of doing things
there are exception, when either the parent or the child is wrong
controlling too much will have 3 outcomes
1.rebellious
2.under their hands
3.or both
why do i say both, because sometimes will be rebellious and sometimes will really listen to what they want you to do.
Will you think that sometimes, the way of your parents controlling you is too much?
or too unreasonable?
why people's parents allow them to do so
why not mine
they dont know how to be parents
when you starts to grow up
you will understand
those things that you dislike about your parents
one day, you might did them to your own child
and your child will also have the "hatred" towards you
why is this so?
you care for them, therefore you did this
its hard to be a good parents neither a good children
hopefully people who reads my blog will know what i want to convey
dont misunderstands my post and lead to some bad influence
The windows to you are your eyes
what you see might not be what you saw
what you head might not be what your heard
believe in what you believe
Friends make my day
More Friends = More days
Therefore i wish to have more "days"